You make Your own Decisions- They are not.↣
Every day whether we like it or not, we have to make choices for our future selves. When stressful situations arise it is natural to reach out to friends, family, network etc., and ask for some advice. We want to know what they think. We want to know how they feel about it and what they would do if they were in a similar situation. And so, we get the advice. We hear different perspectives.
But one question goes through my mind which one is best for me? So here are some ways for you to make better decisions without help others. As I suffer such situations, I feel. You trust your decisions. Once you start loving the decisions you're making, you won't need the approval of others.
- Be aware of what you want: The best way to make a decision is by knowing what your goals are. When you're abler what you want, That means you may able to make the best choices. When I try to make a decision, I always think about where I want to be in at least last 2 years. Will this affect my life in a negative way? the answer is against what I'm working towards, then I'll try to change my decision, even it is harder.
2. Advice is just an Advice: Advice is great, especially from those you trust and respect. But does not mean that you should take their advice and ride it out. Whether you make a decision about your relationship, your job, whatever, every decision you'll make includes one thing in common: YOU. Remember that: Advice is an Advice. Ultimately, you are not making a decision for yourself, you are having the decision made for you.
3.Make The Choice: Challenge everything you hear. Juggle the advice, weigh out your options, see if it is a viable option for you, and be forbidden that the decision what you want. The only thing to do is to make your own choice and do live with it. This is your life and your choices pave the road ahead of you. If you're afraid of making a decision means you can make something.
In school time we've to take subjects which we don't like. We just run on it and eventually realized that wasn't what I wanted. This situation happens multiple in our life. So move past it and learn from it.
4.Practice. More Practice: The only way you are going to get better, is by practicing making decisions every day. If you make it part of your daily routine, you may feel more confident.
I like to make handicrafts by any waste materials. I used to do every Saturday and Sundays and now I make a decision to be professional.
Last but not the least Trust yourself. After all, life is yours. Make your decisions. Live your life and enjoy it.
With these tips, you may able to make better decisions in your life.
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